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Boudoir Shop Holiday Sale: Goin on NOW!

By Boudoir Tips, Inspiration2 Comments

I can’t believe it’s already that time of year again; time to start putting up the holiday decorations, light the cinnamon candles, bake cookies and pies, spend time with family, and buy gifts for all your loved ones! The last one in that list can definitely be stressful (not to mention pricey) and so we want to help out by offering our most popular educational resources at a discounted price during the holiday season. This sale is going on now at our www.boudoirshop.com and will run through January 3rd.  Check out the awesome deals below!

POSEBOOK INFO: We are very excited to announce that the SLR Lounge has written a review on the Posebook and we are officially “SLR Approved!”  If you want to see what they have to say about our book, you can check out the article HERE

Click below if you want to check out a video of Marissa and Kimberlee explaining the difference educational resources we offer to photographers!

Happy Holidays everyone!

Lydia.

By PersonalOne Comment

Meet Lydia.  She is a very special gal – someone we met in Uganda, Africa this week.  She has a very compelling story about growing up in poverty… and she also has a story of HOPE.

One man we spoke with in Uganda defined poverty as “helplessness plus hopelessness.”  It’s not about material goods or wealth.  It’s about having no hope… no possible way for you to change your life… because there is absolutely no way to pull yourself out of your current situation.  This is how a majority of the world is living.  So when a small opportunity is held out to someone who is helpless & hopeless… their situation is now given new meaning as they are given an opportunity to change.  They are no longer in poverty because they DO have hope.  They DO have an opportunity to change, to do something about their situation.  They are no longer helpless.

This is the story of so many women and children that we met this week.  We had the amazing opportunity to photograph and interview on video stories of HOPE.  These are people who want the world to hear their stories.  Marissa & I were merely the means to help share their stories.  In the coming weeks, we hope to share some of their stories with you.

There are moments from this week that are etched on my heart; moments that we will never be able to forget…

…Holding the hand of a woman who is HIV positive, praying with her after she has just told us that she now has hope for her future and for the future of her children, because of a local church that has helped offer her the opportunity to start a small business in her home.  She is now able to make enough money to provide for her family, and to start saving for her children’s future.  Not only that, but because of the tangible support she has received through her church, she has also met God in a way that she never had before.  As I thanked her for sharing her story with the world, and as I thanked her for being so incredibly brave in sharing her HIV status, my throat choked on the words and I had to push past the tears to try to express to her how much that means to me.  I can’t wait to share her story with you all.  Not because of the gravity of her situation, but because of the HOPE that reflects in her eyes.  That hope is so inspiring to me.

…Holding the video camera as another woman told her story of how Compassion International has helped impact her life in real, tangible ways.  Again, through her local church, she was chosen to participate in a program that teaches pregnant women how to prepare for their upcoming birth, how to receive proper prenatal care, and how to care for their babies.  This woman had delivered five babies in her lifetime.  All five babies died before they reached a few months old.  As she was telling us her story, she was holding her precious baby boy… the 6th child she has delivered… and this baby boy was 18 months old, thriving, healthy, and happy.  The mother believes that her son is alive because of this program that she was a part of in her church.  This mother now has hope for her son’s life, and she has such an incredible JOY that is palpable as you sit and talk with her.

… Holding a baby boy in my arms during a church service a few days ago.  This Ugandan woman approached the pastor of the church and told him the story of how she had found this precious baby lying on a trash heap.  Abandoned and left alone, she picked him up and she is now raising him as her own.  This woman was sitting behind me, and I asked her if I could hold the sweet baby boy.  He was looking at my face and grabbing for my hand.  He also grabbed my heart.  His name is Samson.  His life now holds hope, because one woman decided that he did not deserve to be left on the garbage heap.

… And now let me get back to Lydia.  Lydia once had a story of helplessness and hopelessness.  Until she was given the opportunity to be sponsored through Compassion International.  She was then able to go to school, to attend a program that taught her about her self-worth, to learn that God has great plans for her life.  She was given the help she needs to receive proper nutrition.  Lydia excelled in school, and so she applied to join Compasssion’s “Leadership Development Program” – which is an amazing program offered to a select number of students who are entering University.  These students are given the opportunity to go to school, to join a group of peers who meet together to sharpen each other and learn leadership skills.  They meet 1-on-1 with a mentor, and they commit to serving their community through service projects as they are finishing their school.

Lydia has just started the Leadership Development Program, and when we met her, she was still awaiting a sponsor.  Lydia is studying journalism, and she hopes to use this degree to help share stories of what is going on in the world.  She wants to share these stories with people in her country, even those who are living in poverty, because as she told us, these people still ought to have the opportunity to hear what is going on in the world.  I have no doubt that this amazing young woman is going to have an incredible impact her country.  For about a year, I’ve had the desire for our business to sponsor a young person through their college years (through Compassion’s LDP program).  So as we were sitting with Lydia and other LDP students at dinner, and as someone was praying for our meal, I just simply asked God to put the same thing on Marissa’s heart.  I hadn’t mentioned it to her before; not sure why, but I just wanted to be sure that Marissa was on the same page with me, that this wasn’t just my own idea… maybe just because it is such a big commitment to sponsor someone through this program.  In any case, for whatever reason, I kept quiet, but with this strong desire for God to work it out.  Halfway through the meal, when Marissa leaned across the table and asked me if I’d be ok w/ committing our business to sponsor Lydia through the LDP program, I just smiled.

So, meet Lydia.  The amazing young woman who is going to share stories that need to be heard.  The young woman who is the first person in her family tree to attend college.  A young woman who used to be a child living in poverty, hopeless and helpless.  A young woman who now has a voice to share hope and to give opportunity to other young women and girls in her community.  A young woman who is going to impact her country in incredible ways.  We are so thankful that we had the chance to meet her, and we’re honored that we have the opportunity to help her attend University.  Can’t wait to see how she impacts her world.

Thanks for reading my thoughts.  I blame my “long-windedness” on this darn jet-lag.  🙂  We hope to share photos and videos with you in the coming weeks, to give you some more insight into the lives of these wonderful people, and to let you see some small glimpses of the incredible hope that we saw this week.  -Kimee (for Marissa too)

For info on how to get involved in Compassion, visit their website: http://www.compassion.com/

Save the Ta-tas! Race for the Cure in San Diego

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As most of you know, October was Breast Cancer Awareness month. Participating in the Susan G Komen Race for the Cure is very important to me (Ashley) as I lost one of my Aunt’s to breast cancer and another one of my Aunt’s is a survivor. It is an amazing day, and anyone who has participated in a walk like this would agree. Leave it to San Diego to give us beautiful weather on this Sunday, November 7th, to walk with over 15,000 other fighters, survivors, and men, women, children and even dogs who have all been affected in one way or another by this all too common disease.

For the walk, I created a “Team Boudoir Divas”. Unfortunately, due to different circumstances, the actual employees walking only consisted of myself and our fabulous make up and hair stylist, Peggy. 🙂 (Crystal “Slept in for the Cure” since she’s about to pop out her baby boy soon, and Marissa and Kimberlee were leaving for Uganda the following day). However, we still had an awesome team which consisted of my mom, sister and amazing friends: Stephanie, Kristen, Brittney, Sarah, Alicia, Eric, and Travis. Check out the pictures below!

From Left to Right: Sarah, Breana (my sis), Denise (my mom), me, Peggy, Stephanie, Kristen. Bottom Row: Brittney and Alicia

Our SWEET Pink Get Ups 🙂

Everyone walking over San Diego’s famous Balboa Bridge

The Boys: Eric and Travis

Entering the Freeway part of the walk!

WE FINISHED!!!

WPPI Road Show | Write up by Romonia Isaac

By Speaking ProgramsNo Comments

So we know the WPPI Road Show has come and gone, but we had the pleasure to meet Ms. Romonia on one of our stops and she wrote a great write up on her personal experience at the road show; so we just had to share. 🙂

Here’s an excerpt on the part where she reviewed us:

The Boudoir Divas are downright awesome! Marissa Boucher & Kimberlee West are two very talented ladies who have literally brought boudoir back. Their style is classy, sexy and flattering and it is absolutely exquisite. They continue to bring more and more to the table. Check out their beach themed editorial shoot. (Click here)  Love it! Learning from them, hearing how they shoot their subjects, what lighting they use, their poses and so much more was a treat within itself. And then to get the opportunity to get onstage and be directed by them was an honor. These woman are amazing and their business will continue to succeed.

The experience was so worth it and it gave me a small taste as to what is in store for the future. To all of the individuals who spoke, thank you for your genuine words of wisdom, experience and truth–it was appreciated and absorbed.  When you are surrounded by so much positive energy, it is always a great feeling. Until next time, I hope everyone enjoyed this unique dated Sunday!

Check out the whole blog post here: Life Behind My Lens
Here are a couple pictures she snapped with us:

Thanks for the kind write up Romonia, you were such a pleasure and we hope to run into you again soon!

Ashley’s a photographer! Yipee!

By Boudoir Photo ShootsOne Comment

For those of you who follow our blog, you will know that I (Ashley) joined The Boudoir Divas team just over a year ago as the Divas’ “go-to-girl/Exec Assistant” and have since expanded my job titles to include “PR Director/Marketing/Social Media Manager/Boudoir International Admin”…kind of a little bit of everything around our little studio. 🙂 (If you want to see my VERY FIRST Video on my first day at the studio, click HERE!)All the while, I was training to be a boudoir photographer for our studio! The time has come and I am now shooting regularly. It is an awesome feeling and everything I learned, I learned from M & K. Many of you have asked me to post pics, so here is one of my first shoots. This is the beautiful Lindsey, and she was kind enough to let me share her pics with all of you!

I just LOVED how die hard Charger fan she is (cuz I am too!)

You rocked your shoot Linds; glad you love your pics as much as I do! 😉

-Ash

Why boudoir photographers should do their own boudoir shoot :)

By Boudoir TipsOne Comment

I know, I know…almost every photographer we talk to about doing a Boudoir Shoot at our studio says the same thing: “Oh, no, I’m much better BEHIND the lens than in front of it!” However, we have many reasons why you SHOULD have your own boudoir shoot…let us explain our top two reasons 🙂

-A HUGE reason is that boudoir photography is like no other genre out there.  Your clients will be more nervous here than with any other kind of photography and it is really an amazing experience (and advantage!) to be able to say you have been in their shoes and know how they are feeling.  And you really will know how they feel!  It will help you relate to them and say the right things to make them feel at ease.

-We, along with most boudoir photographers agree, that this is truly something every woman should do at least once in her lifetime.  Who doesn’t deserve a day to feel completely spoiled and taken care of and be able to leave with a killer album to show off and remember how hot you looked that day!

Recently, Kimberlee had the pleasure to photograph another photographer.  The beautiful Tracy had attended one of our Boudoir Workshops in the past, and when she got the opportunity to come back to San Diego, she decided it was time: time for her to experience her own boudoir shoot.  Please read an article she wrote about her experience at our studio.  This article was taken from her site: Be Beautiful Photography.  She even posted some pictures of herself from her shoot on her page!  Check those out here.  Gorgeous. (We also included a couple below the article; thanks for letting us share Tracy!)  🙂

Thanks again, Tracy, for sharing your experience with all of us!